Choose Create a Great Day

Mar 11, 2021 02:49 PM Central
Crystal DuShane
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Every day we have a choice. We get a chance to Choose & Create each day by the way we feel. My Choice is to enjoy each day & feel good inside as much as possible.

What do you choose today?

I am sitting here and looking back where I was when I created this design, I was flat broke, money was on the way but not sure when it was coming in, creditors calling with threats, lost lots of people a long the way with the things I had to walk through and shift in me. Up until then, I thought because I didn't know how to do a business & didn't know who to trust or why I was failing at everything at that time I wasn't Enough and I was a Failure. This was another big shift in me as up until then I really thought I had to react to all the things going on around me, especially if it was something that triggered in me. I thought that I had to shout out and stand up, no matter what the consequences, that's the warrior Survivor mode in me. At the point I created this I had been fighting my way through life & business, doing all the things I was learning & being told while feeling awkward and out of place most the time. I was still trying to fix everything and me, reacting rather than responding, focusing on all the outer stuff rather than being curious on what else I could heal each time I was triggered. Up until then I was giving up my energy & power to all the outer stuff. I thought if others didn't understand, made fun of, ignored, rude to, were in fear or anything I didn't agree with I thought there was something wrong with me, that was the Victim in me.

This Design was created as I began the full shift of getting vulnerable asking for help, healing me one piece at a time, each trigger is another piece of me I can find peace with, not because what happened was okay but for me to live in the present time, rather than reacting from safety trauma triggers of my past, in the knowing that we are all doing the best we can at any given time.

That Grace for myself and others allows me the Love frequency space to allow others the grace to be themselves and if they aren't ready to heal themselves, no worries I love you so much. I can love from afar & I don't have to allow it in my space, with Love & Compassion. I am way more than the trauma that brought me here, from those traumas rather than staying in Victim I shifted to Victor so I may relate to others that resonate and together we allow the Safe Space to speak it, accept it, process it and gain our own insight for ourselves. This Design reminds me, when I am in Love with me and all the Messes, Stresses and Blesses, that's what I have control of. In 2020 and Now this was brought to the forefront for me, family, tribe, team and community. I am reminded of the Serenity Prayer from the 12 Steps, My version is.

Universe, Ancestors & Angels Grant me the Peace & Calming to accept those things I can't change which are outside of me, the Valor & Courage to change the things outside & in me I can Change as Change Begins in Me and the Knowledge & Insight to know the Difference so I may Respond in Love & Grace with me and others.

I am responsible for how I show up for me and others each and every day, no one else. When I am responsible for my energy & frequency healing me first, I can show up with a Full cup and see others with more compassion. It's been an inner journey of healing my child within, so I can show up today as My Authentic self no matter what others think or say or feel. I am Me, I am not for everyone and that's okay today. I am Real, Raw, Vulnerable full of Love and Light most the time and yet I have shadows that I work through just like most people. I have no claim to perfection or competing (unless it's a game, then it's on) lol. I know that I have been and at times am a Hot mess piece of work, up until now, I thought it was a bad thing. Today I know giving myself the Grace to allow the mess while cleaning up the mess in myself first and all that surrounded me, 1 step at a time. I can heal me, 1 piece at a time and share that with those ready to do the same for themselves too, This is the long version of my story behind this Creation, each design and Creation I make has a piece of Love & Light Energy as I make each one with my Heart Center aligned and turned up.

I love what I do, each and every day and when I have gratitude, forgiveness, love, grace and compassion in my life Starting in the morning and growing throughout the day for me and loved ones a long the way, Miracles happen and Dreams Do Come True. Self Love & Self Care Matters most. We need our Oxygen mask before we can help & serve others from our own Hardcore (Real & Raw) & Heart Centered Caretaker Souls, at least this is what I have found and live on a daily basis. I love you and look forward to walking each other home, side by side, We Rise in to our Own Best Lives.

See you on one of our Team Community support Zoom calls soon, Mondays @ 10am, Come Shift your Shitake with us to kick off your week, Wellness Wednesday we do a mid week check in to see what else we can shift and Every other week we have Rise & Shine on Thursdays to check in for Biz & Shift happens, then Sip & Meditate to Center and enjoy our Saturdays and then on Sunday Funday, Reminder of things we can all do to Enjoy our Days with Family, Friends & Loved ones that Raise our Vibes. Here's a Full link to our Events. See you next week in our Newsletter, Thank you, I am Grateful to have you in our lives and on this walk through life. You are amazing for waking up & doing you, I love you so much.

With Love, Appreciation and Gratitude, Many Blessings to you, Thank you for Reading and investing the time.

Choose Create a Great day

Cabin Time, My Happy Place Thanks Moms for Dreaming & Believing

Mar 6, 2021 10:31 PM Central
Crystal DuShane
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Found this from Thursdays Newsletter...my bad it had a glitch...

Good Day to all you Beautiful souls

Today as I am writing this it’s Thursday and I am very thankful for who I am, where I am as a Human, a Personal Brand and growing expanding company. It’s funny to me as yesterday was my 30 year anniversary of the first day of making me and my recovery priority. The day before I had went back to my old life for help with my van & thought I was strong enough to be around my old friends who I had to leave for me to get clean and off the streets. I was getting my van fixed to make it to my sponsors wedding & reception with recovering people. I felt so much guilt & shame around what happened and then after I shared what happened and came clean about starting over on Day 1. I vowed, I was more than who I was. I have to do whatever is necessary to keep that Back in the day, Back in the Day. It’s been a long journey from then to now.

One of the biggest moments and pivot points from then til now is our Mom's Dream. Mom wanted a log cabin in the woods and at the time, where they were, my not the momma told her...When Pigs Fly. My mom really wanted it and held that Dream in the corner of her heart and thoughts, not knowing how it would happen, just believing it would. That was in the 90’s, in the early 2000’s they received the property through a family friend in their price range. They met a beautiful couple that sold Log cabins and again it just so happened to be obtainable, they broke foundation in Winter of 2005 and by the Summer of 2006. Us, Family & Friends were putting up trim, walls, beginner decks and roof and then keeping up with the maintenance and continuing movement forward.

There’s been many Beautiful friends and family who have helped along the Journey for that I am truly thankful and grateful. The awesome stories of Fun, love, blood, sweat, tears, laughter, hard work, lessons and Blessings, truly Priceless...

I am sharing this story as they started talking about the next step of their Dream of leaving the Bay and moving to the cabin Full time about 3 years ago. When that happened I was in the next shift of creating our Dreams of our Family business and had started designing Shirts. I designed this one for them and us as the reminder that when we hold a Dream in our Heart with Love and Grace it will be ours and Dreams Do Come True.

Today as I write this we are in the final stages of moving them out of the Bay and on to their Dreams, a cabin in the woods, surrounded by beautiful nature, friends and a life they can enjoy together. Creating and playing as much as they can. I am so happy for them and love that we have been a part of their journey. Looking forward to pictures and postcards of their many adventures to come. Thanks for teaching us How to Dream, now it’s time for them to Live theirs. Wishing them many Blessings a long the way, taking the time for more joy in the Present and celebrating all they have been there done that, thus far. We Love you and Hope you Love every moment and Create many more Beautiful memories.

If you'd Love one too Awesome, click here. Who would love to see this Design on a Mug in Honor of The Hard work, Lessons and Blessings of their Journey? Who would love to see an update, a lot has changed since this pic?

Have you heard about all our March Events and all the ways we are supporting our Teams, Tribe and Families...Omg I am so thankful and grateful for the life I live today. I am glad I get to share it with all of you and I am looking forward to many more moments, memories and miracles. If you’d love to Join in the Fun...Check out our Hardcore & Heart Centered Caretaker Souls Group on FB, Ready to Rise with us in your Side Gig to Main Gig, Jump in our Messenger to see if our Beautiful Boss Beaches Group is Right for you, we are on Day 11 of Side Gig to Main Gig, doing what we love, serving our Families and Communities. Thank you for being here, looking forward to seeing you on Zooms.

Here's the Link to Save for Easy access to Links and events, we update regularly, Do you have an awesome gift or talent you would you love to Share with our Tribes, we are all over Wellness a Healthier lifestyle with Shifting your Shitake, Cause that's the Bottom line, Fun & Sassy Designs, Crystal & Aroma Creations, Rehoming, Repurposing and Reigniting the Dreams in others that have lost the umphh and sometimes hope Dreams Do Come True. I and We are here to say, They Do and they can continue to come true, when we align with our passions our desires and our Inner Peace and Joy it Can be done with more Fun & Ease rather than Harsh Dis-Ease. Change Begins in me and it does in you too. I Believe in you and it's worth doing the work, it is for me and so many others. Thank you for your time, I appreciate you and look forward to sharing even more.

Who loves a Virtual and In person Garage Sale? If you know me I could go on and on, lol For now, know I Love you , We love you, You're HP loves you and You are Enough as you are, right where you are today and everyday. What are you Choosing everyday to get closer to a Life you Love to Live Everyday...Yep even doing chores and work.

Cabin Time, My Happy Place Thanks Moms for Dreaming & Believing

Mar 4, 2021 12:51 PM Central
Crystal DuShane
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